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Queer Parenting Brochures
Brochure series developed and produced collaboratively by Family Service Toronto and the Sherbourne Health Centre, with support from The Counselling Foundation of Canada.
- LGB Parenting for Family and Friends
- Parenting Options for Gay/Bi/Queer Men
- Transexual / Transgender (ts/tg) Parenting
- Co-Parenting
- Choosing a Sperm Donor: Known or Unknown
- Insemination procedures
1. LGB Parenting for Family & Friends

Summary of topics covered:
- Myth: Lesbian/gay/bisexual parents will raise gay or lesbian children
- Myth: Lesbian/gay/bisexual individuals are more likely to molest children
- Myth: Children need male and female role models when growing up
- Myth: Children living in lesbian/gay/bisexual families will be ostracized by their peers. It is unfair to put children into these situations.
- No Significant Differences
- Some unique possibilities for children
- Defining Family
- Celebrating Family
- Resources
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2. Parenting Options for Gay/Bi/Queer Men

Summary of topics covered:
- Info on Parenting Options for Gay Men
- Adoption
- Public Adoption through the Children's Aid Society
- Private Adoption
- International Adoption
- Joint Parenting with Women
- Surrogacy
- Resources and Support
- Daddies & Papas 2B
- Resources
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3. Transsexual/Transgender (ts/tg) Parenting:

Summary of topics covered:
- Myth: Children will be damaged by knowing that their parent is ts/tg
- Myth: Transsexual/transgender people can't/don't have children
- Myth: Transgender people are child molesters
- Myth: Children need to be a certain age before they are ready to learn about a transgender parent of family member
- Myth:Children living in ts/tg families will be ostracized by their peers. It is unfair to put children into these situations
- Myth: Transgender parents must resolve all issues of gender identity before coming out to their children
- Myth: Children of ts/tg parents will be unable to establish a comfortable gender identity.
- Challenges for Family Members
- What Words to Use
- Respecting privacy
- Defining Family
- Celebrating Family
- Resources
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4. Co-Parenting

Summary of topics covered:
- What is co-parenting
- Why co-parent?
- Finding a Co-Parent
- Discussions with Potential Co-Parents
- The First Year
- Co-parenting contracts
- Conflict Resolution
- The Unexpected
- Resources
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5. Choosing a Sperm Donor: Known or Unknown

Summary of topics covered:
- Using a known sperm donor:
- Finding a donor
- Discussions with potential sperm donors
- Some important issues to discuss with a potential donor
- Benefits of using a known donor
- Disadvantages of using a known donor
- Using an unknown sperm donor:
- A third party or go-between
- Sperm Bank
- Benefits of using an unknown sperm donor from a sperm bank
- Disadvantages of using an unknown sperm donor from a sperm bank
- Resources
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6. Insemination Procedures

Summary of topics covered:
- Donor Insemination
- Home Insemination
- Instructions for Donors
- Instructions for the Woman who is Inseminating
- Clinic Insemination
- Clinic Insemination: Intracervical Insemination
- Clinic Insemination: Intrauterine Insemination
- Entering the Medical World of Fertility/Infertility
- The Emotional Roller Coaster
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